I noticed that my links are now broken because of me changing the name of my blog so I will post another blog under the new name. I haven't gotten any new comments or questions so I will base this one on what I see going on around me. I see couples all around me and I see three different types of couples. The first kind of couple I see is the over the top couple. We all know this couple. This is the couple where both people in the relationship show so much emotion towards each other that it makes the others around them roll their eyes in contempt. I'm writing about this couple first because they are the most prevalent and they are the couple that people see the most because they make the fact that they are a couple known the most. I also write about this couple first because for most, this is the first step in the relationship : The Honeymoon Phase.
Every relationship has this phase. It is the phase where each partner loves everything about the other person and sees nothing wrong in their relationship at all. There will eventually be a stop to this either because of an argument or it simply faded out. The ones who continue on past this honeymoon phase are the second couple I see. This is the more toned down couple. These are the ones who don't have to announce it to the world because most people already know. This is the couple that is still happy together but they have matured into a better relationship and have gotten strong through the arguments. These couples are in the second phase and some couples will grow more and more until they get to the hopefully final phase which is marriage.
The couples who don't go to that are usually the third couple I see. This is the hybrid couple where one is more mature about the relationship and the other is clingy. Usually this is at the end of a relationship because one person is trying to desperately cling to the other and make it work which unfortunately usually causes the other person to leave them. That mature person wants it to work but they want to be mature about it and not revert and go back to how they used to be in the beginning. Unfortunately, these two will clash and the mature person's pity will eventually run out and the relationship will end.
My advice out of this is try to connect with your partner. you two are a team and hopefully love will bind you two together. If they want to be that person who loves p.d.a. go with it if you are willing to. If you are not, let them know. If they don't want that, don't try to force it on them or you will eventually lose them. Be the first or second couple. Don't ever be the hybrid couple.
If you want advice from me, Comment below.
I don't really know how to start this, but I just want to get an honest opinion that won't be sugar-coated. I want to know if my boyfriend might be cheating on me. A while ago, I had checked his phone and there were some odd text messages from him to his second cousin. They said:
ReplyDelete"Can anyone see your phone?"
"Ok good. Would you like to mess around on Sunday?"
"How long have you been on it? Would you like to do it again?"
It seems like he might be cheating on me with her. Unfortunately this is the only piece of evidence I have. Am I overreacting, or is this something I should worry about? I've already asked him about it, but his story doesn't make much sense. He did admit to asking her how long she had been on her menstrual cycle. I don't know why he'd need to know that. In addition, I asked his cousin and her story didn't match his. I don't want this to be true, but if it is, I don't want to stay with him. Please just tell me what you think. Thank you.