Know What You Want

     Before doing any kind of flirting, dating, or anything to do with relationships, you have to ask yourself a few things. What do you want? Do you want a long-term relationship or a one night stand? What type of person do you want to date? What do you need to do to make it happen? What is best for you?
      If you just want a one night stand, its all about looks and first impressions. If you're a man, make it look like you have status, that you are well-groomed, and that you take good care of yourself. Personality wise, act relaxed and calm as if you belong there. It shows that you are confident and it helps the women be comfortable with you.Also, show a sense of humor as its one of the most important things to a woman. If you can make her laugh, you're in.  If you're a woman, go out and show off your best features. Be flirty and show the man you're into that you want him. Make it known what you want because most men will go after you for the night if you act like this.
     If you want a long-term relationship, it is going to be harder. You've got to stand out. For men, it isn't that different than what the last paragraph said. Take care of yourself  and look your best. Show your best self with your personality and always try to make the girl smile. For women, it is different. You have to act more composed with your clothing choices. Make yourself look date-worthy and make yourself look like a woman that men want to get to know. With your personality, act more relaxed around men. Still flirt but make it subtle to make the man want to try for you.
     With the person you want to date, that is all a matter of opinion. I can't tell you what your type is. That is something only you know but make sure you know what it is. If you're not sure what your type is, experiment and test it out. See what type makes you the happiest and go with that. I'm not saying date out of your comfort zone as those might be your best relationships or your new type. What you need to know is what isn't your type. If you date someone that is not your type at all, it is common knowledge that you will be miserable.
      What you need to do to make it happen has been explained somewhat already. I threw some looks and personality traits to present. Another thing to remember is you use the same methods, you will get the same results. Use what has worked and disregard what hasn't. Certain things that work for others won't work for you and vice versa. Use what has worked. If you use all these things, you will find out what is best for you and you will simply have a better life.

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